Ross "The Boss" Friedman Dies at 72 After ALS Diagnosis
He told the world about his ALS diagnosis in February. By March 27 he was gone.
Six weeks. That's all the time there was between Ross Friedman going public with the news and his death. The Bronx guitarist — founding member of The Dictators, former Manowar axeman, fifty-year veteran of rock and metal — died at 72 and the announcement came through his Instagram with the kind of weight those posts always carry.
"His music meant everything to him and his guitar was his life's breath," the statement read. "This insidious disease took that away from him."
That line lands hard when you know what ALS actually does. It's a disease that kills the nerve cells controlling muscle movement — progressive, relentless, and without a cure. For someone whose entire life was built around his hands and what they could do on a guitar neck, losing that ability before the end is its own particular kind of cruelty.
When Friedman went public with the diagnosis on February 9, he was already feeling it. Small strokes. Weakness in his hands and legs. The guitar slipping away before he was ready to let it go.
"It crushes me not to be able to play guitar," he said. "But the outpouring of love has been so, so strong."
The Career
Friedman started The Dictators in the Bronx in 1973 with Andy Shernoff and Scott Kempner. They were loud and raw and funny in a way that felt like punk before anyone was calling it that — records like The Dictators Go Girl Crazy and Manifest Destiny still get cited as foundational. They never quite broke through commercially, but the people who found them never forgot them.
He left in 1980 to join Manowar alongside bass player Joey DeMaio and stepped into a completely different world — full throttle heavy metal, Battle Hymns, the kind of record that meant something serious to a very specific kind of music fan. He stayed until 1989, then kept moving the way restless musicians do — Death Dealer, Shakin' Street, The Spinatras, and eventually the Ross The Boss Band, which he launched in 2009 and was still running right up until his body stopped cooperating.
His last single dropped in 2025. He was inducted into the Metal Hall of Fame in 2017.
The Loss
Fifty years of music and the guitar was still his whole life at the end, even when he could no longer play it. That's the part that stays with you — not just the career, but the man still reaching for the instrument as it became unreachable.
ALS took Stephen Hawking. It took Lou Gehrig, whose name the disease still carries in the United States. It took O.J. Brigance, Jason Becker, and too many others whose names didn't make headlines. It does not discriminate and it does not slow down.
Friedman knew what was coming when he made his announcement in February. He said it anyway, thanked the people who loved his music, and faced it the way he'd faced everything else — directly, without softening it.
Six weeks is not enough time. It never is. But the records remain, and so does the legacy of a guitarist who helped invent something before the world had a name for it.
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